Thursday, April 01, 2010

OK Cupid flame war

It was suggested by a friend that I try okcupid.  I did and almost immediate I got into an email war.  Some woman  was upset that I didn't take filling out my profile too seriously, I guess, and here is what she wrote to me and my  subsequent snarky response.



Mar. 31, 2010 – 4:28pm

It is my experience that people who are truly different in a cool, positive way, don't have to try so hard or actually declare themselves as such.


27% Enemy 72% Friend 63% Match Message from HER



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Apr. 1, 2010 – 11:44am

Taken from your bio:

"I’m really good at
Learning, loving, understanding, being grateful, cleaning my plate :)"

Please remember to add passing judgment without talking to someone on your list as well.

I don't quite understand what you are trying to teach or show me with your email. It's obvious that you don't want to be friends so I can only assume that you wanted to reach out and try to say something hurtful.

For a person that says they learn love and understand, I find your message strangely out of character.


Seriously?  Why bother me.



1 comment:

  1. Victor, run while you can. I've been on OKC for 6 years & it's almost never worked for me. (Once in a blue moon it gets me laid. That's about it.) I'm just a slow learner; you may yet be saved.